I am of the persuasion that we are all individuals, that gender is irrelevant, that sexual orientation is a spectrum. Be who you feel you should be; those who accept you as you are will look past your flaws, and see what makes you special and unique.
Sex differences lie on a continuum; behaviourally and physiologically, no animal - human or otherwise - is exclusively "male" or "female".
Some people just get caught. *laughs
